Denis Thatcher

[5] He joined the Territorial Army shortly after the Munich crisis, as he was convinced war was imminent[1] – a view reinforced by a visit he made to Nazi Germany with his father's business in 1937.

He served throughout the Allied invasion of Sicily and the Italian campaign and was twice mentioned in dispatches, and in 1945 was appointed a Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE).

In the recommendation for the MBE (dated 28 March 1945), his commanding officer wrote: "Maj. Thatcher set an outstanding example of energy, initiative and drive.

[13] He remained in the Territorial Army reserve of officers until reaching the age limit for service on 10 May 1965, when he retired, retaining the honorary rank of major.

[16] On 28 March 1942, Thatcher married Margaret Doris[16] "Margot" Kempson, the daughter of a businessman,[1] at St Mary's Church in Monken Hadley.

[18] Thatcher was so traumatised by the event that he completely refused to talk about his first marriage or the separation, even to his daughter, as she states in her 1996 biography of him.

[19][page needed] Thatcher's two children found out about his first marriage only in 1976 (by which time, their mother had become Leader of the Opposition) and then only when the media revealed it.

[20] In February 1949, at a Paint Trades Federation function in Dartford, he met Margaret Hilda Roberts, a chemist and newly selected parliamentary candidate.

[22] In 1953, they had twin children (Carol and Mark), who were born on 15 August at Queen Charlotte's and Chelsea Hospital in Hammersmith, seven weeks premature.

[25] Not long after the 1964 general election, Thatcher suffered a nervous breakdown which put a severe strain on his marriage.

[26][27] The breakdown was probably caused by the increasing pressure of running the family business, caring for his relatives, and his wife's preoccupation with her political career, which left him lonely and exhausted.

[32] Thatcher was already a wealthy man when he met Margaret, and he financed her training as a barrister, and a home in Chelsea, London.

[citation needed] This, his wife's political career, and their desire for financial security caused Thatcher to sell Atlas to Castrol in 1965 for £530,000 (£13,000,000 today).

Thatcher saw his role as helping her survive the stress of the job, which he urged her to resign on the tenth anniversary of her becoming prime minister in 1989,[citation needed] sensing that otherwise she would be forced out.

[39] Given his professional background, Thatcher served as an advisor on financial matters, warning Margaret about the poor condition of British Leyland after reviewing its books.

"[40] They otherwise usually kept their careers separate; an exception was when Thatcher accompanied his wife on a 1967 visit to the United States sponsored by the International Visitor Leadership Program.

In his most famous outburst about the corporation, he claimed his wife had been "stitched up by bloody BBC poofs and Trots" when she was questioned by a member of the public about the sinking of the ARA General Belgrano on Nationwide in 1983.

[43] The award was gazetted in February 1991, giving his title as Sir Denis Thatcher, 1st Baronet, of Scotney in the County of Kent.

Thatcher returned home on 14 February and visited his son Mark in South Africa in April, but in early June, he again complained of breathlessness and listlessness.

Lady Thatcher's staff also thought he looked unwell, and on 13 June, he was admitted to the Royal Brompton Hospital for further tests.

[53][54] Produced by his daughter Carol,[55] Thatcher's single public interview (which took place in October 2002)[citation needed] was made into a documentary film titled Married to Maggie,[56] broadcast after his death.

[57] He called his wife's successor, John Major, "a ghastly prime minister", saying that "[i]t would have been a [...] very good thing" had he lost the 1992 general election.

Denis and Margaret Thatcher with US vice president George Bush and second lady Barbara Bush at Chequers in 1984
Thatcher in 1982
Thatcher and US first lady Nancy Reagan at Downing Street in 1988
Plaques on the graves of Denis and Margaret Thatcher at the Royal Hospital Chelsea (pictured in 2014)