She was regent of Capua in 1091 during the minority of her sons, Richard, Robert, and Jordan.
[2] After his death she married his son Jordan I of Capua.
[3][4][5] Pope Gregory VII claimed that Gaitelgrima was forced into the marriage, with Jordan I of Capita literally dragged the unwilling woman to be married.
[6] Later the same year, however, she was expelled from Capua by the citizens, who elected one Count Lando as their prince, and she took her sons with her to Aversa.
In Sarno, she sheltered her brother Gisulf in his final days and there he is buried.