"Holding Her and Loving You" is a song written by Walt Aldridge and Tom Brasfield and recorded by American country music artist Earl Thomas Conley.
It was released in August 1983 as the second single from the album Don't Make It Easy for Me.
The song was Conley's fourth number one country single.
[1] Since it became available for download, the song has sold 156,000 copies as of April 2019.
[2] A music video for the song was released and has been seen on GAC.