Italian American Reconciliation was first performed at the Eugene O'Neill Theater Center in Waterford, Connecticut, in a staged reading[1] in 1986.
Frank Rich, reviewing for The New York Times said, "Mr. Shanley's writing recalls Paddy Chayefsky's Marty gone loopily punchdrunk.
"[2] In reviewing a production at the Ruskin Group Theatre, Los Angeles, California, in 2009, the reviewer compared the play to Moonstruck, writing: "[it] explores similar themes: gender wars, joys and pains of a tight-knit ethnic community, fear of loneliness.
Twenty years on, the play feels like a period piece — cornball, sure, but with a big-heartedness and linguistic vitality that today’s emerging writers could learn from.
The New York Times reviewer noted that the story, an "operatic comic romance" is "as emotionally heightened as an expensive, microplanned family celebration and as sad as the morning after.