In 1997, he relocated to Australia to play colts rugby for Eastern Suburbs RUFC, before returning to the UK to study Geography at Durham University.
Wilkins has maintained his links to the community game and is regularly involved in providing ongoing education for grassroots coaches and players.
[15] When Keane left the club at the end of his first season, Wilkins remained to continue his role under new Head Coach Andy Friend.
[21] On his return from Ireland's series win,[22][23] Wilkins was promoted to the position of Connacht Head Coach, with Andy Friend moving to a new Director of Rugby role.
[24] When Friend later announced he would be leaving Connacht at the conclusion of the 2022-23 season,[25] it was confirmed that Wilkins would assume overall responsibility for the professional team, signing a three-year contract as Head Coach.