You, Me & the Violence is the debut studio album by French hardcore punk band Birds in Row.

[3] Musically, the album features a screamo-influenced melodic hardcore sound.

[4][5] AbsolutePunk critic Dre Okorley wrote: "The reigning allure of the twelve tracks is that they are peppered with a sort of Tragedy/From Ashes Rise hybrid, the throat-pulling melodic hardcore that Portland trademarked so well, but are still captured in the Birds In Row mystique."

Okorley also concluded that the album "is in a league of its own, with hardly anything in its associated genres to be bullied by and rivaled.

's Bradley Zorgdrager stated: "The record ends on a high note, as "Lovers Have Their Say" swells, but never fully climaxes, giving listeners a chance to reflect on the masterpiece they just took in as the feedback takes over.