You Don't Know Me is the name of the lead-off single from Ben Folds' third studio album, Way to Normal.

The song features Regina Spektor on vocals dueting with Ben Folds.

Ben Folds called Regina Spektor and asked her to be featured in the song.

The footage is intermixed with video of Ben Folds, drummer Sam Smith and bassist Jared Reynolds playing on the lawn outside the couple's house.

[2] The single was featured in the 11th episode of the fifth season of the ABC hit drama, Grey's Anatomy titled "Wish You Were Here".