According to Andrew Tompkins the album art is of a Los Angeles model, the band actually does not know who the woman is.

[3] A Time to Mourn explores themes such as betrayal ("Betrayed Again") and the album also deals with issues related to church life ("Live for the Day") and how we need to make sure that our commitment to a church doesn't override our commitment to God.

It makes the point by telling the story of a woman who won't have to think for herself again because she's now a part of the church.

[4] The second song on the album, "I'm Not to Blame" is written from Jesus' perspective and is essentially a comment about the fact that Christians have a tendency to understate the importance of self-control, allowing sin to control their lives and crying out to God to forgive them over and over again without making any effort to alter the behaviour themselves.

But scripture is clear that you won't be tempted beyond what you can bear which means that there is no excuse for sin.