[citation needed] The bride is seated on a dais and the turmeric paste is applied by the guests to her face and body.
[1] In Muslim Bengali families, the henna is used to decorate her hands and feet with elaborate abstract designs.
These gifts—often including fish (especially ilish), sweets, and clothing—are not to be confused with dowry; their significance lies in the intricate artistry of their decoration rather than the monetary value.
[2] Although similar ceremonies exist in other parts of the Indian subcontinent, the gaye holud is a custom particular to the Bengali people.
It is not considered a religious function, as it is celebrated by Muslims, Hindus, and Christians in both Bangladesh, the Indian state of West Bengal and wherever Bengalis live, irrespective of religion.