Gerris

[1][2] The genus Gerris contains 43 species in 3 subgenera:[3] Species of genus Gerris demonstrate a high degree of female control over most aspects of mating and there is significant evidence that supports antagonistic coevolution, and the convenience polyandry hypothesis of multiple matings.

[8] Females respond in turn, creating a pre-copulatory struggle in which they try to perform backwards somersault-like movements to break free of the male grapple.

[4][9] As a result of the tactics employed by both species there is evidence of rapid evolution between the sexes in a persistence-resistance form of sexual conflict.

[5] The sexes of species of genus Gerris compete between each other in an "arms race" behaviour where males and females have varying traits that serve to increase their own fitness over the other.

[7][11] Water striders, and more specifically those that fall under the genus Gerris are a model organism for studying sexual conflict as they have clear costs associated with their actions.

Male grappling on top of the female in an attempt to force copulation
"Moving of mating Water Striders ( Gerris argentatus ), weigh about 0.00002 lb created surface waves ( Ripples ) in a pond. The striders are out of focus (on purpose), but you could see their shadows, the hairs at their legs and the sun reflected from their footprints" - Brocken Inaglory. The ripples attract predators.
An example of genitalia shielding and the courting that males do instead of the usual forced copulation attempts.