Necessary Roughness (1996) is a drama novel by Asian-American author Marie G. Lee which explores themes of discrimination and a clash of cultures between Korean parents and their children's American ways.

It is the story of a young Korean-American boy's transplantation from the city of Los Angeles to the fictional rural town of Iron River, Minnesota and his use of football to escape the bigotry that he faces and the conflict he experiences with his parents.

[1][2] The Kim family is forced to move from their hometown of L.A. to Iron River, Minnesota.

Abogee's (Chan's father) brother, Bong, left abruptly without paying any of his debts.

When they moved to Minnesota, however, Chan joined the football team, and a family tragedy decides his career.