Koedt reflects in her writing, "It was Freud's feelings about women's secondary and inferior relationship to men that formed the basis for his theories on female sexuality.

Once having laid down the law about the nature of our sexuality, Freud not so strangely discovered a tremendous problem of frigidity in women.

[1] History It wasn't until 1998 when urologist Helen E. O'Connell, and her team dissected 10 female cadavers and found that the clitoris we see outside of the body is only the tip of the iceberg.

Porn often portrays a man's orgasm being the center for pleasure and the woman as a submissive participant helping him get there; hers is a consolation prize.

The idea of women asking for what they want in order to orgasm was not the "sexy" part of porn, so when it's not included the viewers, often young people watching to learn, take away that they should not be asking for more.