[1] Anxious for a son, the aged Shuliang He approached the father of the Yan family for a marriage to one of his daughters.
Yan Zhengzai later moved to Queli (闕里) with her son and stepson Kong Pi, whose mother had also died.
[6] Due to her being literate thanks to her well-educated father, Yan Zhengzai personally taught Kong Qiu, which would have influences into his adult life[7] and raised him into a nine-foot six inches man who everyone called "long man".
Her son first stationed her coffin along the crossroad of Wufu (五父之衢) and began asking around for the location of his father's grave.
He eventually got told by Zou Man Fu (郰曼父)'s mother and managed to locate his father's grave near Fangshan, and Yan Zhengzai was buried together with him.