[5] The Dean of Killala, at the time, was Theophilus Brocas, whose daughter, Henrietta, married Henry's son, William.
Henry Cary, son of the Bishop of Killala was on last Saturday married to Miss Mary DEERING, a young lady of great beauty, merit and a fortune of £5000 sterling."
[8][9] The Cary's had at least five children: The birth of a daughter was announced in April 1747,[10] but she did not survive and is possibly one of the four grandchildren buried near Bishop Mordecai in Killala Cathedral.
Three months after the death of his first wife, he married Deborah Hamon at St Paul's French Church, Portarlington, on 2 October 1756.
At the time of the Archdeacon's death, Henry, jnr, was 26, newly married to Anne Gore with a child of his own, and with the added responsibility of six younger siblings to care for, the youngest being only two years of age.