With You, Without You (Sinhala: ඔබ නැතුව ඔබ එක්ක, romanized: Oba Nathuwa Oba Ekka) is a 2012 Sri Lankan film written and directed by prolific Sri Lankan filmmaker Prasanna Vithanage, and produced by Lasantha Navaratne, Mohammad Adamaly and Prasanna Vithanage for Akar Films.
It stars Shyam Fernando and Anjali Patil in lead roles with Maheshwari Ratnam and Wasantha Moragoda.
Principal photography was shot in Bogawanthalawa, Central Province, Sri Lanka and Sarasavi Studio in Colombo.
Sarathsiri, a man in his mid-forties, runs a pawn shop from his two-storied building in a remote town surrounded by tea plantations.
He broods, rarely talks, and in his spare time intently watches professional wrestling on TV.
One day, Selvi, a young woman, lands at his pawn shop with a fistful of worthless trinkets and keeps coming back.
Sarathsiri is intrigued by her and through his maid Lakshmi finds out that Selvi, a Tamil Christian is originally from Kilinochchi, an ethnic civil war stricken area of northern Sri Lanka.
Sarathsri gets to know that an older widowed businessman has asked for Selvi's hand in marriage and immediately rushes in to declare his own desire to marry her.
Once at home, Sarathsiri teaches her the basics of pawning business and tells her of his dream to own a tea plantation.
While Selvi exudes a warmth and happiness, Sarathsri remains engrossed in his pawnshop and the wrestling bouts on TV.
As he is leaving the upper floor Selvi follows him asking how many Tamil women has he raped and how much gold has he stolen from them.
In a desperate effort to get her back, Sarathsiri sells his business and offers to take her to India and show her films.
One morning Selvi unexpectedly apologises to Sarathsiri about not being the wife he desired and promises to make amends.
Overjoyed, Sarathsiri kisses her from head to toe and leaves to buy air tickets for India.